Jan 23The Middle PassageImagine a cold winter night. Your kids are in deep sleep upstairs in their bedroom. You are sitting under a blanket with your partner sipping wine and watching a movie. Tomorrow is Saturday and there is no school or office. You are in good health, financially well off, have good…Midlife8 min read
Nov 23, 2021Tips for giving a good presentationDo not delay conveying your key message. With each passing minute, you are likely to lose more and more of your audience. Thus, convey the central message of your presentation right at the beginning Present for the audience, not for yourself. Your presentation will not meet its goals if the…Public Speaking5 min read
Aug 18, 2021My Bucket ListFinding your passion. Inquiries become interests. Interests become hobbies. Hobbies become passion. Passions become calling. We put genuine and sustainable efforts into something only when we are intrinsically motivation for it. …7 min read
Aug 6, 2021Are you struggling to speak up in team meetings? Here is how to fix it.This is the first part of the three part series on speaking up. In today’s corporate world, one cannot succeed without speaking up. You may be the smartest person in your organisation, generate the best ideas and create the best solutions, but if you are not able to communicate well…7 min read
Jul 27, 2021A time when I failed in my Mathematics Class TestFail Verb: Be unsuccessful in achieving one’s goal Noun: An instance of poor performance. As a student, I used to do well in academics. Teachers, friends, neighbours and parents always commended me on my intelligence. This is an incident from the time when I was in the fourth grade. Our mathematics…Careers4 min read
May 31, 2021Removing the mask and connecting with peopleI am not talking about the mask that we are all wearing these days to protect us from COVID. I am talking about the ego mask that we all wear that prevents us from presenting to the world the true us. I am an introvert. It is uncomfortable for me…Psychology4 min read
Mar 15, 2021The elusive art of Power ChillingPower chill refers to hanging out with friends doing nothing — no agenda. No deadlines. Nothing to do. A generation back, it was very common for families to meet in the evening or over the weekends for tea, lunches and dinners. Meeting people every day was a core part of…Friendship4 min read
Oct 16, 2020This is what learning Guitar taught me about how our mind worksLearning guitar has taught me more than just guitar. It has given me insights into how our mind works and how we learn things. It has made me believe that with the right elements in place we can learn anything. Mindset I grew up with a fixed mindset. I used to…Careers9 min read
Jul 20, 202040 Years in 10MinutesI have turned 40 today. I was hoping to celebrate the day by throwing a big party and inviting all my friends to it. However, there is no party. I am celebrating a quiet birthday with my wife and son. I am using the free time at hand to write…11 min read
Mar 31, 2020Who is in your top 5 listBefore you start reading this post, please get a pen and paper and make a list of everyone who matters to you. This will take a few minutes, but it is important that you do this. Did you create the list? How many people are in it? Most people come…4 min read